When someone comes to stay at my home I expect him to respect my rules. If I don’t like some of his habits, the guest should change them. If I give him a refuge, job, school for his children etc. that is the minimum to be expected. But for happens is that the guest(s) not only don’t respect my home, but want to impose their rules on me. They open mosques in my own home, calling for disrespect of infidels (in my own home). They preach that I am not proper as I don’t veil myself. How long would I tolerate that? How long would you???
Of course you wouldn’t. You would nicely tell your guests to leave and go back to their homes.
Therefore all the political correctness (which is actually hypocrisy and artificial) should just be observed from that prospective.
If some members of my family dislike the guests it is their right and guests may be angry as much as they like, but they will have to keep their mouth shut or go back to their homes.
So if guests in Netherlands are not happy with the words of one of then owners of the house where they are guest only, they should feel free to leave the house. That is the only right which they have. Instead of that the owners (Dutch Government) is apologizing to their guests. How nice of them. Would they do the same thing ate their own home. Of course not. They would expel guests immediately.
Therefore if someone is not happy what I think and what I say in my own home, he should leave and leave me alone. Only in his own country he may preach what is right and what is wrong.
If you want to go to Iran and you are a women, you even must put a photo in your passport where you are veiled (even when you are infidel). They say it is their country and they impose thye rules. Fair enough. Why are we hypocrits and pretend to be above these simple, fair rules.