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France bids adieu to the term 'mademoiselle'

France bids adieu to the term 'mademoiselle'

French women will no longer need to declare marital status on official forms after the government demanded the term "mademoiselle" be dropped. Solidarity Minister Roselyne Bachelot (pictured) said the move would "end a form of discrimination".

By Ben MCPARTLAND (text)
 

French language learners might soon have to update their text books after the government signalled the beginning of the end for the term “mademoiselle”.

Under pressure from feminist groups the French government has decided that a women’s marital status should no longer matter when it comes to bureaucracy.

Up until now French women have been asked to identify themselves on administrative forms either as a married “madame”, or a “mademoiselle” - a term used for unmarried young women.

Having to make that choice is deemed sexist by many because men are always referred to as “monsieur”, whether they are married or not.

The Prime Minister’s office has now instructed authorities to only use the term “madame” in a move Solidarity Minister Roselyne Bachelot said would “end a form of discrimination”.

The shift has been hailed as an important victory by France’s feminist movement.

“Little by Little”

Clemence Helfter from Osez le Feminisme told FRANCE 24 the dropping of the term “mademoiselle” is more than just a symbolic victory for gender equality.

“People say to us ‘don’t you have better things to campaign about for women?’ but for us this is a real victory. This word is just a part of an unequal system and each time we gain a victory like this we are beating male domination little by little,” she said.

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“Miss” - the English equivalent of the word “mademoiselle” - has been slowly phased out over the years as “Ms” has become the more commonly used term.

The German “Fraulein”, which literally means “little woman” was outlawed from official use back in 1972. In Spanish, a latin language like French, the use of “senorita” is now seen as old-fashioned.

But young women in France are still regularly greeted by the term “mademoiselle” whether it’s by a waiter in a café or when having to identify themselves when shopping online.

“Mademoiselle is not flattering it’s intrusive,” said Ms Helfter. “It’s old-fashioned. Let’s get a move on. Less and less people are getting married in France so what is the point of using it anymore?”

Changing times

Some local authorities have already heeded her call. Last week the council in charge of Paris suburb Fontenay-sous-Bois abolished “mademoiselle” from official documents because it was “condescending and sexist”.

They also banned the term “nom de jeune fille”, which means “maiden name” from all paperwork because it was “archaic” and had “connotations of virginity”.

Officials in Cesson-Sevigne, a town in Brittany, took a similar step two months ago.

Some feminist commentators have put the rejuvenation of France’s feminist movement down to the fallout from the sordid sex scandals involving former IMF chief Dominique Strauss-Kahn.

Groups like Osez le Feminisme were angry that comments made by members of the French elite and some media coverage of the case seemed to belittle rape and was too sympathetic towards Strauss-Kahn.

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Just weeks after his arrest in New York on accusations he sexually assaulted a hotel chamber maid more than 40 feminist groups held what was considered the biggest conference on women’s rights in a decade. More than 600 activists turned up to the rally in Paris.

“Times are changing in France. While we have often heard it said that feminism was outdated and belonged in the past, we have recently seen a profound resurgence of a yearning for equality,” said Osez le Feminisme leader Caroline De Haas in an article for British daily the Guardian.

The fight goes on

If the feminist movement has been given a much needed boost it still has a big fight on its hands to gain real equality for women in a country where they were not allowed to vote until 1944.

Ms Haas points to the fact that 80 percent of casual workers in France are women and the wage gap stands at 27 percent in favour of men. Only 18.5 percent of members in the lower house of parliament are women compared to 21 percent in the UK, 33 percent in Germany and 46 percent in Sweden.

One of those representatives, Chantal Jouanno, has gone on record saying French politics was so sexist that she didn't dare to wear a skirt in parliament.

In French boardrooms, only 15 percent of executives in large French companies are women. A new law has set a quota for 40 percent by 2017.

The issue is coming to the fore at a key time with France just weeks away from the first round of voting in this year’s tightly fought presidential elections.

Dozens of feminist groups are set to meet the candidates from various parties at a meeting in Paris next month where they will demand more is done to tackle the wage gap and call for restrictions on sexual advertising.

“It’s very important for us to know whether the candidates have it in their minds to tackle these issues of gender inequality,” Marie-Noëlle Bas from the feminist group Les Chiennes de Garde President told FRANCE 24.

Ms Bas told FRANCE 24 that President Nicolas Sarkozy had still not confirmed he would attend the meeting. Socialist Party candidate Francois Hollande and the Green Party’s Eva Joly have said they would be there.
 

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why do men seem to feel

why do men seem to feel obliged to comment on women's issues - Theophilus who the hell do you think you are?

Mademoiselle goodbye

Sorry, I meant to write 'dommage' instead of 'damage' - pardon my poor French!

Damage!
by Anonyme (not verified) - 24/02/2012 - 14:04
So sad. I loved being called mademoiselle. Political correctness gone insane by insecure people with nothing better to do...

Anti- Feminism

I do not understand why the term Feminist is used to describe these women in a movement that has such hatred for the female sex and all it stands for.
A "yearning for equality?" Ever since the feminist movement was started by women we would now identify as transgendered,The feminist movement has been staggering around like a drunkard ever since.In the 1890's women should have entered the work place in parasol and pretty dress and proved to men they could perform the same tasks and still keep their femininity.
Instead they rejected everything that women were and cut their hair, wore men's clothes and have tried to look and act like men ever since.
Look at the West now. it is dysfunctional and dying. There is no one at home bearing children.Everyone who is growing old are not being replaced. which is why we are having so much monetary problems in Europe and America. There are no young workforce to pay for the programs and retirement of the old. You cannot have a society of men and men wantabes and have that society survive.
There should be a new form of feminism a true form that celebrates the Mother, the home maker, and the caregiver. These are extremely important jobs and the hardest if done properly. It is also far more rewarding than earning a paycheck. Leave money grubbing and all the nasty unpleasantries that go with it to the men. The European population at the end of this century will be down to 2% of world population. at 1900 it was 37%. This is what Anti feminism has done to the West. By the way, I will still call you Mademoiselle. Or will the next "victory" be when women are called Messieurs?

Ridicoulous

this is what happens when you give people too much freedom. They hunger for trivial victories when there are much larger wars to be fought. How is a woman discriminated against in any way by the declaration of her maritial status. If someone could please expagorate on this so called 'discrimination' I'd be truely greatful.

Damage!

So sad. I loved being called mademoiselle. Political correctness gone insane by insecure people with nothing better to do...

France bids adieu to the term 'mademoiselle'

Mademoiselle is the most beautiful word in French.

This might be the first step for French women to become sexless and unattractive, sanctimonious,dehumanized immoral promiscuous machines incapable of becoming mothers.

Help the prostitutes who are mostly single mothers and spit on political correctness.

I am with the fems

The word miss disappeared from most countries mentioned above without a fuss, thats because gender equality is sipmly not as a big a problem as it is in France.

Its outdated. Why should a women have to say she's married and not a bloke. Its tripe.

A small and symbolic victory it maybe but its one in the right direction. Soon women across France will be pouring their own glasses of wine, opening their own doors and sitting down at a restaurant table without the help of a supposedly 'gallant' french bloke.

Its time French blokes got with it. The last thing we want to do is discourage the women from wearing skirts.

Au Revoir Mademoiselle

Vraiment, c'est dommage. :/

Changing Names Won't Change Reality

As a cautionary tale or warning from American feminist politics and history, French women should understand that the dropping of the term 'mademoiselle' is a hollow victory in the short and long run. Speaking as a man that neither fears or blocks the empowerment of any woman, it is more important to me that women are fully and effectively invested throughout a nation's social, political and economic structures rather than some superficial name change. Respect that is based on genuine power matters more -- especially in the mentality of men. It is no coincidence that throughout past and recent history, the numbers and voting power of women were the real major concern among socially and politically insecure male dominated societies.

It is basic mathematics and social justice. Since women are the numerical majority of France and most nations, it is critically important that power-sharing with men will greatly empower an entire society. The history of nations and cultures that continuously suppress the contributions, capabilities and partnership of women are doomed to diminish, die and disappear. Numbers don't lie.

Show me how empowered women are in any society, and I'll show you how powerful a nation actually is in a global sense. Real men don't fear empowered women. Two strong wheels ride better than one.

Mademoiselle goodbye

One had hoped France had more common sense. The slime of political correctness slithers ever more remorselessly over everything.

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